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Peace Is Only Possible in The Present

  • Writer: Nicolette Martinez
    Nicolette Martinez
  • Apr 17
  • 2 min read

Updated: May 29

The mind naturally identifies with thoughts and experience. It says "I am anxious" instead of "I am feeling anxiety". The fusion causes suffering - we mistake the weather for the sky. The sky will change.


Being present is the beginning of separating self from experience. It's the pause that allows you to observe rather than become. You notice: a thought is arising, a sensation is here, an emotion is coming through. But you are the awareness behind it all and not any of those things.


Self is you, the soul, that exists regardless of circumstances. It is the energy and being that is always present as long as we live.


In a world that is always pulling us forward or dragging us backward, presence is the only place peace can live. We often think that peace is something to chase - a state we'll arrive at once something else happens or eventually. Peace will come when we finish the to-do list, once the relationship is better, once we have done something greater, or when things work smoother. But peace isn't in the future. Peace is only possible in the now.


Being present in the moment means surrendering to the past and future and being in this exact moment. It's a gentle pause that reminds the body that in this current moment.

Being present doesn't mean pretending everything is okay, especially if it isn't. It means being honest about what is, without losing sight of yourself.


When you're in an unpleasant situation, whether physically, mentally or emotionally, presence allows you to feel and observe and responding.


When we are fully present, we stop resisting the moment. We stop clinging to control or needing answers before they’ve arrive and identifying ourselves with that we feel. And in that quiet surrender, we meet stillness - not because life has stopped being chaotic, but because we are no longer it.


Presence does not eliminate our problems, but it shifts our relationship to them. It allows us to respond rather than react. It invites breath, space, and clarity. And from there, peace naturally arises - not as an escape from life, but as a way of living within it.

 is safe, the mind is enough, and the heart is whole.

 
 
 

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